Celebrating Self-Love this Valentine's Day

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Valentine's Day is a Hallmark holiday that's filled with love, flowers, chocolate, and gimmicks, and whether you're into the day or not, it's one that can't be avoided. For a long time, I found myself hating the day because it felt like it was forced on me, but now I have a plan. My plan this year is love—self-love. 

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Over the last few months, I've come to realize that you [truly] cannot receive or give love unless you [fully] love yourself; like Mama Ru says; "If you can't love yourself, how in the hell can you love anybody else?" We are born into love and will leave here surround by love, what happens in-between that time is entirely up to us, and whether you're single or coupled, treat yourself with care and love. As someone who is in a relationship, it's easy to focus on giving all of your attention and love to someone else, but this Valentine's Day let's concentrate on giving yourself grace and love by practicing self-love. Here are five ways to celebrate self-love this Valentine's Day. 

I. Practice gratitude and positive affirmations

A daily routine is so beneficial to your personal and mental health, and I've found waking up early, meditating, and writing down five things I'm grateful for every day has helped balance my anxiety and the craziness of the day. Also, when I'm feeling low or anxious, reciting positive affirmations throughout the day helps bring me back to my center. Practice self-love by setting aside time daily to be still with yourself, even if it's 20 mins a day; this will help support your mental clarity and encourage new ideas and creativity. 

 
 

II. Self-care

Aside from giving yourself time to reflect every day, I encourage you to practice self-care by doing something that brings you peace and joy at least once a week. For me, I love skincare products so, I'm always on the hunt for new products and new ways to improve my skin. Pixi Beauty is a women's beauty brand, but I've heard such amazing things about their serums that I had to see if they'd work on men's skin, and they did! I've been using their Jasmine Oil during the day and their Overnight Glow serum at night; the combination of the two have hydrated my winter skin, reduced the appearance of my smaller sun sports, and left my skin with a healthy glow, even in this harsh weather.

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III. Pamper yourself

Pampering yourself is almost unheard of, especially for us men, but this year try pampering yourself with a [good] dinner by yourself—yes, by yourself. I know having dinner alone is scary and can bring up unwanted feelings, but once you get past it, it will be one of the best things you can do for yourself. Also, buy something nice to celebrate YOU, you deserve it. Remember, you teach others how to treat you based on how you treat yourself. 

 
 

IV. Prioritize yourself

So many of us are taught being selfless is a good thing, and it is, but when you begin to put others needs before yours, it becomes a problematic thing; this is the easiest way to feel drained and depleted. It's time to start pouring back into yourself, being considerate of your needs, and kind to yourself. If you're signed up for my newsletter, you know my focus this year is happiness and the begins with prioritizing myself and the things that make me happy. I will be taking time off to create memories with my partner and family, disconnecting from my phone and social media, and creating/doing the work I enjoy. I encourage you to do the same because when you show up and prioritize yourself, you are likely to show up fully for the people who need you.

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V. Unfollow + Disconnect

Since the beginning of the year, there's been buzz floating around to curate your social feeds; if we're being honest, I did this months ago. Disconnecting, unfollowing, muting, and unsubscribing to everything that doesn't inspire me or feed me positive energy. Start thinking about how you can do the same; you want to be surrounded by only things that inspire

 
 

To maintain a good life for yourself and the people who matter most to you, it's important to engage in self-care, self-compassion, and of course, self-love. As you go into this Valentine's Day, remember to love yourself fully and freely, not because it's the thing to do, but because it's necessary. Continue to Live Your Life in Style and always Be Inspired.

YES, THIS POST IS SPONSORED BY PIXI Beauty, BUT ALL THOUGHTS AND OPINIONS ARE MY OWN. THANK YOU FOR SUPPORTING THE BRANDS THAT SUPPORT SAMCPERRY. Use at your own risk.

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